Posted in Resources on Jun 25th, 2007
Like other forms of domestic violence ( incest, molest) verbal, physical, emotional, economic, psychological. sexual, spiritual violence is SECRETIVE and progressive. Usually ( he can go “public”) only the partner of the abuser hears it or knows about it. His tactics can be covert or overt. It is insidious, […]
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Posted in Anecdotes-n-Quotes on Jun 18th, 2007
If your abuser is narcissistic, it may well be. My Ex was certainly ELATED upon our split, particularly having been recently confronted with his abuse by both me and our couples counselor. He not only escaped intimacy but he also escaped having to face himself. He seemed to do all in his power […]
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Posted in Anecdotes-n-Quotes on Jun 17th, 2007
I will be inserting these from time to time, as they are significant bits of knowledge and wisdom that might be meaningful to other victims of abuse:
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“…Nor can the narcissist come to terms with his need for help or acknowledge that wrongful behaviour on his part may have contributed somehow […]
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Posted in NewNewz on Jun 11th, 2007
Self-centered. His needs are paramount. No one else’s count.
No remorse for abuse, outbursts, mistakes or misdeeds. EVER.
Unreliable, undependable. And often proud of it.
Does not care about the consequences of his actions.
Projects his faults on to others. High blaming behavior; never his fault. Blame and projection are primary M.O.
Little if any conscience or ability to […]
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Posted in Diary, Resources on Jun 5th, 2007
The excerpt below could and should have been written by my Ex. It is part of the Foreword in the book “Malignant Self-Love, Narcissism Revisited“. But more than that, the below is very much about my Ex and how he “operated”. They’re all like this (narcissists). And they’re abusive. However, as is noted in […]
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